There are three girls, lily, natalie, and sylvia, who im having big problems with. Two years ago i was very mean and lied to lily and natalie, but last year they said they were over it. Sylvia is best friends with the two of them, but not so much with me. About a month ago I was surprised to here that she talks about me, calling me things like fat and b****y, when I don%26#039;t even know, or talk to her. My two friends, natalie and lily, have never been the same since my betrayal, and have been pretty mean, like they always talk about me behind my back and stuff. Recently there was a party, and they told the story to everyone and finished it with%26quot;and to this day, we are still really mad at her%26quot;. I was so mad, and its mostly natalie whos mean to me. And also, they told me that they forgave me, and they could%26#039;ve told me the truth. So now, all three of them(lily, natalie, and sylvia) talk about me. We all do a dance class, and they always make comments on me, that are mean of course.
Friend issue.?
Ughh, I hate when things like this happen, you think people would get mature, right? Hmm, well first of all this Sylivia girl is jealous of you for what reason I do not know, but I%26#039;m sure there are alot of them. Secondly, she%26#039;s the one who probably dug up the story from natalie and lily and sparked their hurting emotions. So you can basically say, Sylivia is starting this whole thing. I would first talk to Natalie and Lily alone, tell them to stop when they try making a comment, and stop them right there and tell them how messed up this whole thing is, and how you want to be friends with them still and how you thought this was all over, and that your still sorry about the past. Then once you have talked to them two, you need to get to Sylvia and tell her , face to face, to stop spreading stuff about you and messing up your friendships, tell her %26quot;Yea, I%26#039;ve messed up but we%26#039;ve said sorry and put that stuff behind us, now you come along and are messing everything up. What did I ever do to you? blahblahblah%26quot; let her have it, but make sure to not insult her or that gives her a reason to hate. Okay, well I hope everything goes well, good luck and tell us what happens!!
Peace.
Reply:well then you need different friends.
if they do that then there not really worth being best friends with. you should like only talk to them little and talk to your other friends more, they will get the hint and probably stop all the BS and guys will be best friends again.
Reply:Those girls are not real friends. You can%26#039;t make them be nice or stop their mean comments. I%26#039;m really sorry, I think that everyone goes through something like this. Just try to stay away from them and eventually it will get better. They%26#039;re just immature. Good luck *
Reply:One Word My Friend.
Immature.
Simple and easy, I think you need to get some new friends, I really do. You cannot stop those comments, rather than just to ditch them and leave.
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